Being honest with your guy about what you expect from a relationship isn’t always easy. The two of you might or might not have the same thoughts about this topic. And no one ever likes to feel like they are begging their partner for more attention, love and care! However, if you feel like you want him to put in more effort into the relationship, it is important that you talk directly to him about the said thing, anything else wont work. Be rational and honest, and you will get a clear answer too.